HW 41 - Independent Research

This wedsite  is about  the process of adopotion  and  who gave/ giving brith  that would like to adpote.
http://staging.americanadoptions.com/

An adoption story: A women name Cherly was not able to ferterilze due to many atamps with her husband.  Cherly always thought about adoption  but her husband wanted to creat an creation of his own and not someone elses. But this began to change when Cherly wanted a child.. So they went to look for adoption.  They waited for about  six years to have a child. And they finally had a boy name  Chase.

"Once Cheryl completed their last round of infertility treatments without success, she knew that was it – she had had enough. She had no issues moving from infertility to exploring the prospects of adoption. Craig, however, wasn’t as keen on the idea as was Cheryl.

“The hardest part for me was deciding to adopt. I was opposed to it from the beginning,” Craig said.

Craig, like many other men who have dealt with infertility in their marriage, was against adoption because he didn’t want to raise “someone else’s kid.” Naturally, Craig wanted to continue his bloodline.
( http://www.americanadoptions.com/adopt/story_view/testimonial_id/231)


Thsi article is about women who felt the need to adoption because they were froce and told they couldnt be mothers  -
Dr Hames said the mothers were not allowed to bond with their children, were often heavily drugged with medication and had barriers placed between them and their babies.

"They weren't told the sex, they certainly weren't allowed to see or touch the baby,'' he said.

"Many of these women have not gone on to have children. They have been so traumatised.''

Dr Hames said the apology was not about compensation for the mothers or a criticism of parents who adopted the children.

"What they (the mothers) say to me is not that they want compensation. It is that they want to have somebody recognise that what happened to them was wrong and, hopefully, will never ever happen again,'' - (.http://www.perthnow.com.au/news/western-australia/wa-government-apologises-to-unwed-mums/story-e6frg14c-1225940839634)